Lilith is a fictive object and not a real celestial object. It represents the point where the Moon is farthest from the Earth.
This is a point related to situations where we feel we cannot control ourselves.
It represents a point of se*ual freedom and deepest erotic desires. It indicates experiences where we feel as if we are possessed by an uncontrollable force and not able to control our sexual urges.
Lilith is asking us to rebel against authority and break the rules of society, especially the ones regarding our desires and needs.
Lilith represents something within us that we might be afraid of sharing with others because we feel that we might be judged by society.
When Lilith makes aspects with planets or Lilith of another person this usually indicates a magnetic attraction between the two people.
Lilith in the 7th house
Lilith in the 7th house of the natal chart indicates the desire to be in a union but also the inability of the person to establish and maintain a healthy one.
These people can act very possessive and jealous in a serious relationship or marriage and they might overwhelm their partners with these traits. They might be overly demanding of attention and time.
People with Lilith in the 7th house might tend to impose their will onto their partners and not be tolerant and flexible at all in that relationship.
These traits can refer to the partners of the person with Lilith in the 7th house. Their partners might be jealous, abusive, dominant, inflexible, intolerant, and very demanding.
The 7th house isn’t the best place for Lilith because it might bring some destructive issues to the person’s long-term relationships. This is especially true if Lilith is close to the cusp of the 7th house.
There is a strong desire for these people to be in a relationship with someone, bordering obsession.
There might also be a fear connected to the idea of committing to someone in such a way.
There might be a tendency of these people to avoid getting married or being in a long-term relationship despite their desire to be with someone exclusively.
For some of them, this attitude might stem from past disappointment, usually through the divorce of their parents or through many quarrels their parents had.
Lilith in the 7th house can be a sign of the person’s fear of opening up to a commitment and letting someone get close to them.
Some of them might have an unconventional view of marriage and long-term relationships.
They might consider it quite normal to have an open-type of relationship and have affairs with other people besides their spouse or long-term partner.
This placement might indicate traumatic experiences they need to endure in their relationship life.
These people often find happiness in marriage and relationships later in life where they have gone through the relationship drama and learned their lessons.
Lilith in the 7th house might indicate possessiveness either on the Lilith person’s side or their partner.
They might end up obsessing over their partners long after the relationship or marriage has ended. Sometimes this indicates their partner is obsessed with them even after the relationship has ended.
This placement of Lilith might be a sign of the person’s tendency to stay in an unfunctional relationship even when it is obvious that it is not good for them.
These people need to learn to establish healthy relationship patterns.
For them, it is easier to find a lover to neutralize the effect of a bad relationship or marriage than to find the strength to end that relationship or marriage and find someone that will be a good match to them.
When Lilith is placed in the 7th house it can bring the person long-term partners and spouses with Lilith qualities.
These people can be jealous, obsessed with sex and in some cases a bit destructive and deviant.
This might also be the way Lilith person could act in long-term commitments.
This placement of Lilith might also indicate being with partners who are not available for a long-term commitment because of some issues.
They might already be in a long-term relationship or married, or they have some other blocks that prevent them from being in an exclusive relationship with the Lilith person.
Sometimes the role of Lilith in the seventh house will be to teach the person to have a balanced approach in a relationship, not to be overdemanding for attention or demanding too much freedom.
With Lilith placed in the 7th house, the person might attract unsuitable partners in their life, people that might try and succeed in taking advantage of the Lilith person, abuse them, or harm them in another way.
The placement of Lilith in the seventh house might cause issues in business partnerships as well.
There is a strong possibility of betrayal, conflicts with the partners, misuse of power, etc. Their business partners might try to take advantage of them.
The position of Lilith in the 7th house can cause power struggles between the romantic partners and spouses as well.
There is a battle between them about who will be the dominant one. The other side always feels like a victim.
These roles don’t have to be fixed and are often interchangeable between the partners who swap these roles.
This position can indicate many breakups and divorces, but also infidelity and deceits.
Lilith placed in the 7th house can have various meanings, and possibly the most significant ones are:
- Behaving destructively in relationships
Lilith rules behavior without control and situations that provoke such behavior.
When it is placed in the 7th house of marriage and long-term partnerships this will indicate that these situations where the person is losing control and behaving obsessively happen in the area of their long-term partnerships.
This placement might inspire the person to act according to their urges, not thinking about their partner.
This includes having multiple affairs or behaving aggressively and violently towards their partner. Sometimes this can manifest as possessive behavior towards their partner or spouse.
Often this position of Lilith indicates problems establishing balance in a long-term partnership or marriage for these people.
It might be due to their nature or the nature of their partners, or just due to outside circumstances that they cannot seem to have a harmonious relationship.
These people sometimes have a hard time letting go of their emotions for their ex and this affects the relationship they have with their current partner or spouse.
This makes them unable to be truly happy and satisfied because they keep going back in their mind to their previous relationship which also causes discord in their existing relationships and marriage.
- Being afraid to commit
Lilith in the 7th house is often causing the person fear to commit to another person and be in an exclusive partnership with them.
Lilith is obsessed with freedom and doesn’t allow any boundaries. This is why, for some of Lilith in the 7th house people, a committed partnership is considered a bond they don’t want to commit to because it will limit their freedom and freedom is something very important to these people.
They might be afraid of committing to such a union because they don’t know whether they can sustain it. They often tend to postpone such relationships and often end up not committing at all.
Lilith in the 7th house people should work on dealing with their fears of commitment.
- A desire for a partnership
Even though people with Lilith in their seventh house often have a fear of committing, they deep down long for a union and have a hard time being alone.
They also need to be desired and wanted but at the same time, they are afraid of true intimacy possibly due to past trauma and hurt.
The trauma might stem from past life experiences or from past experiences which prevent these people from fully opening up to their current partner even though they might want that badly.
- Choosing wrong partners
When Lilith is placed in the 7th house there might be a strong pull towards partners who are emotionally or physically unavailable. They might also be attracted to emotionally distant partners.
There might also be a strong attraction to partners who are a negative influence on them, with a bad reputation or habits, or character. They might be attracted to emotionally or physically abusive or aggressive partners. They might also be attracted to partners who are addicts or criminals.
Also, there might be a tendency of relationships with partners who exhibit deviant sexual behavior.
This placement is often a sign of third-party involvement in their relationships or marriage, or them being the third party in someone’s relationship or marriage.
Sometimes this placement of Lilith might reflect on the person as an attraction to people with dark nature and prone to depression. Sometimes this can manifest as an attraction to people interested in and practicing magic and secret knowledge.
These partners might bring out the dark side of the Lilith person and make them involved in experiences where they will confront this side of their personality.
- Problematic business partnerships
Lilith in the 7th house is known to cause issues in business partnerships as well.
This can manifest as a wrong choice of partners, which is why it is advisable to the person with this placement of Lilith to be very careful when choosing their business partners because there is a strong possibility that they might try to deceive them or take advantage of them and their business.
The placement of Lilith in the seventh house should be considered as a warning regarding making business decisions because their partners might influence them into making a risky and damaging business move.
Lilith in the 7th house transit
When Lilith transits through the 7th house, this might indicate a period when the person begins a new relationship with someone who is not the person’s typical choice.
This transit might also indicate conflicts and issues in existing partnerships or marriages.
The person might have the urge to gain more freedom in the relationship or realize that the relationship or marriage isn’t satisfying their needs anymore.
Sometimes during this transit, there might be a breakup of relationships or marriages but other factors need to confirm this as well.
In some cases, Lilith transiting the 7th house might coincide with the person’s heightened desire for intimacy.
Lilith in 7th house synastry
Lilith has a strong impact when it is connected with a planet from another person’s horoscope.
Relationships where two people share aspects between their Lilith and the planets in their natal charts, usually demonstrate irresistible attraction between the two people which cannot be easily controlled.
When one person’s Lilith is placed in the 7th house of another person, this might bring new light to the 7th house person’s perspective on intimacy and lovemaking.
The Lilith person might help the 7th house person to relax and be open about their sexual desires.
Lilith person will help this person to free herself from the sense of guilt and shame about her desires and help her satisfy them.
The Lilith person might be perceived as emotionally unavailable by the 7th house person and this might be true.
This might also be a situation where one, usually Lilith person, or both partners are already in another committed partnership and theirs is a secret love affair.
The Lilith person might try and manage to take advantage of the 7th house person. Their relationship might be full of abuse, filled with aggression, cheating, jealousy, or manipulation.
Lilith in the 7th house composite
When composite Lilith is placed in the 7th house of the composite chart, this can indicate a toxic relationship or marriage.
There might be constant quarrels, cheating, fighting, abuse, manipulation, or jealousy present in this union. Both partners might act in this manner interchangeably, or one of them might be the abuser and the other is the victim.
Lilith in myth
Lilith is the mythical first wife of Adam. Adam was the first man created by God, and Lilith was the first woman, also created from mud, like Adam.
Because Lilith had her free will and wasn’t obedient to Adam, she was banished from the Garden of Eden, and God created his second wife, Eve, using Adam’s rib.
Lilith is also a female demonic figure depicted as a stealer of newborn babies at night.
Lilith in astrology
In astrology, Lilith has a similar nature. Its placement in the natal chart symbolizes the untamed part of our nature, situations where we cannot control ourselves and our urges.
It depicts our secrets and secret desires, the part of us we are afraid to share with others because we fear being judged or abandoned.
Lilith represents experiences and behavior where we feel possessed by some force we cannot resist. It shows when and where we tend to be rebellious.
7th house of the natal chart
The 7th house in the natal chart is the house of long-term relationships and marriage. It is also the house of our business partners, our enemies, court proceedings, and legal contracts.
Transits are movements of the planets over the angles and planets in the natal chart.
Planets are in constant motion and when they form significant aspects with natal placements, usually, significant events occur in our life, providing other circumstances align.
Transits are mostly used in predictive astrology.
Synastry analysis analyses the influences between two natal charts to determine the compatibility of two people. Synastry compares the natal charts, but it can also compare the progressed and natal positions, etc.
Many methods are used in synastry, and the basic ones use the comparison of the planetary placements from two natal charts.
Synastry contacts are significant in relationships where there is a strong emotional and physical bond between the two people.
Composite horoscopes or charts
Composite charts are charts used in synastry analysis. Those are charts of relationships between two people and reveal the energy of this relationship.
They are created using the middle points between the planets and angles in the charts of two people.